If you're emotionally dead what made you message then.
Emotionally dead means not feeling any emotion at all, you know.
And because for something to actually work it needs to be able to offer something better than whatever you retreated to- otherwise it's more likely to have the opposite effect.
[Speaking from experience at all here?? ...Anyway.]
Let's try looking at this another way.
Why do you think you end up sucked into things that hard in the first place?
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Emotionally dead means not feeling any emotion at all, you know.
And because for something to actually work it needs to be able to offer something better than whatever you retreated to- otherwise it's more likely to have the opposite effect.
[Speaking from experience at all here?? ...Anyway.]
Let's try looking at this another way.
Why do you think you end up sucked into things that hard in the first place?